Looking for peace of mind?
You’re in the right place.
Planning with the end in mind. End-of-life & legacy planning services, after loss support & more. Created for individuals of all ages—a lasting gift for you and your loved ones. Let’s talk about the things that really matter.
In order to live well today, we must plan well for tomorrow.
You've probably found your way here because you want to feel prepared for the future and understand that planning beyond your life is a gift to those you leave behind. My services are thoughtfully curated to empower individuals and families to prepare for logistical and emotional aspects of death, dying, and grief.
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End-Of-Life Planning
Compassionate guidance in planning for the future, for you or a loved one. Making decisions and having your affairs in order is a gift to those you love.
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After-Loss Support
Helping you navigate the paperwork and logistics after a death. You need a helping hand to take some of the tasks off your plate.
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Legacy Work
For those who wish to preserve their unique life stories and values, ensuring their legacy is remembered for generations to come.
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Education & Connection
Tailored to individuals and organizations seeking to deepen their understanding of end-of-life topics and learn practical tools to ease the overwhelm.
Does any of this sound like you?
→ You recognize the importance of planning for the future but are procrastinating because you feel overwhelmed with where to start.
→ You find yourself worrying about the potential chaos your family might face if something were to happen to you because your paperwork and digital life aren’t organized.
→ You or a loved one received a healthcare diagnosis, and are looking for emotional and practical support preparing for what comes next.
→Having no idea about your parents' wishes or if they've done any planning is adding to your stress levels.
→ You experienced a recent loss and are feeling overwhelmed and lost in navigating all of the logistics and decisions.
… If so, then you're in the right place.
MEET MARNI BLANK
End Of Life & Legacy Planner
(and a recovering lawyer, trained mediator, death doula, entrepreneur and after loss consultant)
There’s nothing I love more than skipping the small talk and connecting with people on a deeper level. As soon as someone hears what I do and that I’m comfortable talking about death, dying and grief, I can noticeably see the relief on their face and most share something deeply personal with me. It sparks in them a feeling of being seen and heard. Most people walk around trying to hide these stories. I want to hear them.
Meeting you where you are
We all can use a little help navigating major life transitions. I’m here to offer personalized support and practical tools, tailored to your individual experience.
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Discover peace of mind as you plan for your future or embark on your end-of-life planning journey.
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Empower your elderly loved ones with compassionate guidance through their end-of-life planning journey, ensuring their wishes are respected and their legacy honored with our personalized support services.
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Preserve your unique life story and values, leaving a lasting impact for future generations with our tailored legacy planning support.
Michelle A, HI
“Working with Marni has helped set my mind at ease. Her process and plan has given me the steps I need to work towards and I would be lost without her! Although I am planning for my mother, I’ve been able to recognize the actions I need to take for myself and my family. I’m very lucky to have Marni guiding me with her professional advice, calming air and her kind heart.”
Tammy S., Greenwich, CT
“When I started working with Marni, I realized I held feelings of avoidance and fear that I had not expected. Marni helped me tackle this process with patience, compassion, specialized knowledge, and flexibility.”
FAQs
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It's never too early to start planning! Many people I work with are in their 30’s-50’s who are thinking about their parents as they age and how to feel prepared themselves.
Whether you're experiencing a life milestone (having a child, married/divorced, have experienced a health scare or have a family member who has a diagnosis), accumulating wealth, or simply recognizing the importance of preparedness, now is the right time. Planning offers peace of mind, ensures your wishes are known, and provides a valuable gift to your loved ones.
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My approach tackles both the logistical aspects of a difficult subject and the emotional roadblocks that typically stop people from starting or finishing the process.
I have the technical skills from my legal and mediation experience and the emotional intelligence and soft skills of an empath who is also a trained death doula. Where there is a need, I offer referrals to other likeminded professionals who can round out your team.
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I completely understand that discussing death can be uncomfortable. My approach is gentle, focusing not just on paperwork but also on providing emotional support. My goal is to transform the conversation into an opportunity for positive reflection and planning, making the experience more comfortable and allowing you to navigate at your own pace.
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Absolutely! Our services are not bound by location. I use virtual consultations, video calls, and secure online platforms to provide support and guidance from afar. If research is needed for questions in your particular state, I can assist and offer referrals to attorneys and other professionals who can help make your life easier.
